A GOOSE Foundation Initiative

Until It Was My Child

The Dragonfly Infinity Memorial — where every name lives forever. A worldwide memorial dedicated to preserving the memories of those we have lost, while bringing hope, education, awareness and connection to the families left behind.

Until it was my child — a memorial wall and tracker

No parent should ever fear that their child’s name will someday be forgotten. When someone dies, their story should not end — every loved one deserves to be remembered not only for how they died, but for how they lived.

What families can do

Every memorial honors a life that mattered.

  • Create a permanent memorial
  • Share photographs and life stories
  • Preserve memories for future generations
  • Receive messages of remembrance and support
  • Connect with educational resources
  • Explore awareness and prevention campaigns

Inside the app

A place to remember, learn and heal.

Find My Dragonfly

Search for memorials, remember loved ones, and preserve stories for future generations.

The Numbers

Anonymous, family-reported community data by country, state, city, time period and cause — an educational view of the scale of our loss.

Family Corner

A place to share who your person was beyond the way they died — memories, milestones, photographs and messages.

One Mama's Story

The personal journey of a mother whose loss inspired the GOOSE Foundation and Until It Was My Child.

Grief & Advocacy

Advocacy efforts, remembrance campaigns and ways to help reduce stigma and strengthen communities.

Recovery Help

Recovery resources, treatment information, crisis support and organizations dedicated to helping families.